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The Myth of Medieval Childhood

by Samuel Hughes

Published 2026-07-23 14:07:16+00:00

Did parents in the Middle Ages really look at their children and see only small, unfinished adults?

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Context

In this piece from 23 July 2026, Works in Progress enters the nurseries and schoolrooms of the Middle Ages to challenge a cold assumption. The popular idea that medieval parents were indifferent to their children because of high mortality rates falls apart when held up to the actual records. Letters and schoolbooks point elsewhere: to mothers playing hide-and-seek and fathers paying for apprenticeships. The people of five hundred years ago were not a different species of human. They were simply parents trying to keep their children safe in a much harder world.

Show notes

Historical evidence contradicts the popular belief that medieval parents were indifferent to their children or viewed them merely as incomplete adults. Family records show that parents typically married late, raised small families, and made financial sacrifices for their children's future. Written accounts of parental grief and childhood games further suggest that the emotional experience of family life has remained largely the same for a thousand years.

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