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Everyone Experiences Loss and Grief – but That Doesn’t Make It Any Easier to Talk with Kids About It

by Keisha M. Wint, Assistant Professor of Social Work, Binghamton University, State University of New York

Published 2026-06-23 12:28:30+00:00

When adults say someone went to sleep, what does a grieving child actually hear?

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Context

Published on 23 June 2026, this essay from The Conversation points out a quiet failure in how adults handle childhood grief. The instinct to protect kids from pain usually leads to silence or confusing cover stories, like telling a toddler that a relative simply went to sleep. But children experience loss anyway, whether through a sudden move across the country or a death in the family. Shielding kids from the facts of a major life change often just leaves them to process the fallout alone.

Show notes

An overview of how young children process grief, drawing on a pilot study of preschool educators and two decades of school social work. It explains why adults often mistake a child's reaction to death or major life changes for a behavioral problem, and offers practical methods for caregivers to discuss loss using concrete language.

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