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Addiction, Control, and Recovery in the Modern World

by Kent Dunnington

Published 2026-09-10 04:00:54+00:00

If addiction is about making life predictable, how do you acquire a taste for reality?

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Context

Someone drinking the same brand of booze on the same couch every afternoon is looking for a predictable outcome. In an essay published on 10 September 2026, the focus shifts from the outward chaos of addiction to its quiet, numbing routine. The piece suggests that modern culture trains people to expect total mastery over their daily lives, leaving them completely unequipped to sit with uncomfortable emotions. It asks a difficult question about recovery: what does it actually take for a person to admit that trying to run the show is the very thing causing the damage?

Show notes

An argument that addiction is not a search for thrills, but a method for forcing control and predictability onto daily life. The essay connects the modern demand for total self-reliance to addictive behavior, using the author's time in a twelve-step program to show how recovery requires the exact opposite. It frames Alcoholics Anonymous as a practical system that replaces individual willpower with mundane routines and shared dependence.

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